It’s A Small World, But Shouldn’t Be

Routine and structure are what every new parent receives as advice and there is solid wisdom in these suggestions. As with all things, there is a point at which a good thing becomes bad quickly. In recent years, I have begun seeing an emergence of what I am worried is...

If Mama Eats at McDonalds…

…then the kids eat at McDonalds; even if Dad doesn’t. One of the many things I love about the work I do is that I get see patterns in human behaviors.  For some reason this is a fascination of mine and I enjoy seeing how we as a collective group of people...

A Tale Of Two Houses

The other day I met a friend for breakfast and as we were being seated, so was a married couple right in my line of sight. As I enjoyed the company of my friend, I couldn’t help but notice the couple. They were probably in their late 40’s or early...

Mommy Wives

  Alright ladies, this post is for you. Although what I have to share might come with a little bit of a sting . After years of counseling with couples, I have noticed some patterns in the way spouses relate to one another. Some patterns are about men’s...

Protecting Innocence

  She grew up on a side of the road where the church bells ring and strong love grows.  She grew up good. She grew up slow… – “American Honey” by Lady Antebellum   Growing up good and growing up slow. For a lot of kids those are long...