A-V-H Relationships

A-V-H Relationships

Many people come to counseling to talk about their relationship with a significant other. Humans are emotionally messy so that makes our relationships messy. It includes all of us too. Some relationships are healthier than other pairings but every couple struggles...

Just How Old Are You?!

Have you ever had the awkward moment when you’re talking to a person that looks like an adult, you know their chronological age to be past 18 years old and yet this person is behaving in a way that makes you wonder just how old they really are? It is at these...

Share With Others

Sharing doesn’t come easy for most people. Watch a group of toddlers and it will make you think that the human condition is hardwired to not share.  I love the scene in “Finding Nemo” where the pelicans all say “mine, mine, mine!” Yes...

Keep Your Own House Clean

Seven years ago I moved from the west coast to the south. There are numerous adjustments when making a move that includes such a radical cultural shift. Most of the differences between the west and the south have appealed to me and I am happily integrating into the...

A Tale Of Two Houses

The other day I met a friend for breakfast and as we were being seated, so was a married couple right in my line of sight. As I enjoyed the company of my friend, I couldn’t help but notice the couple. They were probably in their late 40’s or early...

Mommy Wives

  Alright ladies, this post is for you. Although what I have to share might come with a little bit of a sting . After years of counseling with couples, I have noticed some patterns in the way spouses relate to one another. Some patterns are about men’s...