Are We All Narcissists?

Are We All Narcissists?

I am frustrated. I just woke up annoyed. Ever been there? The reason I have a low grade level of aggravation this fine morning is because I find some of the teaching on narcissism to be truly damaging and confusing to survivors. I know that’s not the intent of...
A Measuring Stick of Change

A Measuring Stick of Change

To know me is to know that I have a few favorite sayings. Over the last eight years of chatting with clients in a private practice setting, one of my favorites is that personal growth is like a measuring stick. When we want to make changes in our lives, we are not...
Spiritual Abuse is…

Spiritual Abuse is…

My counseling business name is Southlake Christian Counseling. As you can imagine, I get all sorts of inquiries about what exactly does the Christian part of my business really mean. People wonder, and more often worry, that they are going to get yet another heavy...
Too Busy For The Next Order

Too Busy For The Next Order

A few months ago, I was the presenter for a morning training and it was my plan to have fresh coffee and donuts when the attendees arrived.  The day before, I had stopped into the donut store and placed my order.  It was the final task on my presentation To-Do list...